Five Tips to Boost Your Networking Know-How: working the room the right way, not the wrong way

Guest blogger, Matt Alderton, shares his expert tips on how to make the most of networking opportunities.

Before I dive into the power of business networking, let me explain what networking is not: walking into a room of business owners, darting from person to person, giving away as many of your business cards as possible, gathering up as many as possible, returning to your office, then adding them all to your email newsletter list, firing off a generic newsletter and expecting a sale immediately. In metaphorical terms, that sort of networking is like piling your plate at the local ‘all you can eat’ buffet and not stopping to savour the food.

Networking is not about the number of business cards you gather, but the relationships you build. It is not how fast you can free yourself from the person you deem an unsuitable ‘lead’ for your business – but how fast you can discover how to help them. Great business networking is not measured by the dollar delivered to your business, but by the number of relationships you help others create.

I attend numerous different networking events every week. It is a critical part of our sales process and when I was a business coach more than 80% of my clients came from networking events. I’ve been a member of many different networking organisations, and in addition to running the fast-growing business networking in Australia, also attend the local Chambers of Commerce and the NSW Business Chamber, I consider networking to be critical to building a successful network.

Here are my top four reasons to network:

  1. You increase your exposure to other people like yourself, with varying levels of experience and who all share a desire to help each other.           
  2. Referral sources are a significant lead generation source for most businesses – and arguably the highest ROI.               
  3. You will build strong relationships with people you know, like and trust, who you will be able to rely on for advice on many areas of business, and where to go to get support and refer suppliers for your business.
  4. It’s great to get out of your business and work on it, rather than in it, and networking is generally a great social tool.

Here are my top five networking tips:

  1. Work the room − we often get in our comfort zone and hang around the same people. In a networking environment we need to do the opposite. Meet and talk to as many people as you can.
  2. You are not in a networking environment to just swap business cards − you need to build relationships.
  3. The people in the room are not your leads. Often, I see people work the room like everyone there needs to do business with them. The problem is that this is very limited thinking. Instead, build the relationship by following up the initial meeting with a call, Zoom or even a coffee. As you learn more about the other person’s business, think how you can connect them with other people and also refer them to people you know. In turn, they will hopefully do the same. The power of networking is not as much about the person you are meeting as it is the many people they already know and network with.
  4. Have every business card saved in your contacts, connect with the contact on LinkedIn AND, most importantly, remember their name next time you meet. 
  5. Be on FORM – it’s a great acronym to remind you of ice-breaker questions when you meet people. F = Family (where are you from, are you married, kids, their ages?) O = Occupation (what kind of work do you do, how did you get into it? do you enjoy it?) R = Recreation (what do you do for fun? Hobbies? M = Message (move from the informal to the formal, setting up a phone call, working out how you can work together).

Networking is a vital element of your marketing mix – not the only element but an important one. 

What networking has worked for you? Do you struggle with breaking the ice? We’d love to speak about how we could help you network with ease for business success. If you would like to find out more about Bx, Australia’s fastest growing networking organisation, feel free to check us out online or give us a call 1300 068 229.

About the author

Matt Alderton is the CEO & Founder at Bx | Business Networking Reimagined. He started Bx back in 2015 after almost two decades of owning his own small businesses. His goal with Bx is to provide training and education for business owners to create a business that will provide for the life they dreamed of.

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